Nice Guys Finish Last?
I've been getting lazy about the posts. I normally write on Wednesdays (thats my only day off during the week) or Saturdays (my only time I get to enjoy writing at times). Well here goes what I think about our world.
That saying that "nice guys finish last" is probably the most true thing about life. It ranks up there with "life is never fair" or "nothing is ever free". It's a sad truth both in life and love. In society there are two kinds of people: the mean people and the nice people. Each class has a subclass within them. Sounds kinda like WoW in a way (I don't play but you get the reference). In this world where almost everyone you run into is pretty much a bitter sack of garbage, its hard to be nice to anyone. If your too nice people walk all over you, this happens to me a lot sometimes. If your too mean, then people will think your a jerk. You see sometimes you got to realize that not everybody will ever walk up to you and start being nice to you, if you still think that your just naive. It seems like nobody has time to be nice to anyone. When's the last time that you saw someone at school trip over something in front of a bunch of people and nobody laughed or pointed, but went up to that person and asked if they were alright. If you said zero, then your wrong, its actually in the negative numbers since it happens all the time.
As for love, it has been brought to my attention that it is somewhat true. While sitting in class one day doing work, this White girl was sitting there (not doing her work) talking with some people and asked what she would like in a guy. Now this girl is a walking cliche, how you ask? She's white, blue eyes, blond hair and cheerleader. If that doesn't scream cliche somebody should shoot you. Anyways she says she goes for the gruff and tough guys. Boy if girls today go for that kind of guy, then I'm a conservative. I don't know how many people read this or who even reads this, but what has this world come to. Girls don't get me wrong, but why can't you like normal nice guys like me. I'm polite, kind, funny, hardworking and honest. But not too many young ladies seem to notice me. You see in movies or animes that girls are just waiting to find a nice young man like that to fall in love with. In reality it only seems that girls would want a thrill seeking tough guy to fill thier life with.
So I pose this question to you. Why do nice guys finish last? Why does the world seem to place favor on the more aggressive people? All I know is that this world is just tearing its self apart. So I challenge anyone just to be nice to others. Sure it may not seem like a worthy cause, but when you show kindness to others it makes thier day.
That saying that "nice guys finish last" is probably the most true thing about life. It ranks up there with "life is never fair" or "nothing is ever free". It's a sad truth both in life and love. In society there are two kinds of people: the mean people and the nice people. Each class has a subclass within them. Sounds kinda like WoW in a way (I don't play but you get the reference). In this world where almost everyone you run into is pretty much a bitter sack of garbage, its hard to be nice to anyone. If your too nice people walk all over you, this happens to me a lot sometimes. If your too mean, then people will think your a jerk. You see sometimes you got to realize that not everybody will ever walk up to you and start being nice to you, if you still think that your just naive. It seems like nobody has time to be nice to anyone. When's the last time that you saw someone at school trip over something in front of a bunch of people and nobody laughed or pointed, but went up to that person and asked if they were alright. If you said zero, then your wrong, its actually in the negative numbers since it happens all the time.
As for love, it has been brought to my attention that it is somewhat true. While sitting in class one day doing work, this White girl was sitting there (not doing her work) talking with some people and asked what she would like in a guy. Now this girl is a walking cliche, how you ask? She's white, blue eyes, blond hair and cheerleader. If that doesn't scream cliche somebody should shoot you. Anyways she says she goes for the gruff and tough guys. Boy if girls today go for that kind of guy, then I'm a conservative. I don't know how many people read this or who even reads this, but what has this world come to. Girls don't get me wrong, but why can't you like normal nice guys like me. I'm polite, kind, funny, hardworking and honest. But not too many young ladies seem to notice me. You see in movies or animes that girls are just waiting to find a nice young man like that to fall in love with. In reality it only seems that girls would want a thrill seeking tough guy to fill thier life with.
So I pose this question to you. Why do nice guys finish last? Why does the world seem to place favor on the more aggressive people? All I know is that this world is just tearing its self apart. So I challenge anyone just to be nice to others. Sure it may not seem like a worthy cause, but when you show kindness to others it makes thier day.
